In reply to Alex Kite:
Thank you for sharing the video .... I finally managed to watch it ..:):) ! Wonderful FOOD FOR THOUGHT !
I love Fashion and I enjoy ' Glamour ' but then I'm talking about my personal definition of GLAMOUR .. " that is ... having a unique and bewitching character , where knowledge shouldn't be less but more , combined with the art of finesse, being knowledgeable and understanding of what are beautiful and elegant aesthetics and not losing the human touch"... of course I'm talking about women and having said that, in spite of the author's insightful arguments about the negative side of FASHION he also very rightly points out that :
" ..... AS WITH OTHER INSTINCT OF INFLUENCES ... WE CAN NEVER RID OURSELVES OF THIS EFFECTS ENTIRELY , BUT THE MORE THEY ARE UNDERSTOOD AND RECOGNISED THE MORE WE CAN CONTROL THEM RATHER THAN THEM CONTROLLING US "
I have seen programs where women who once were indeed slaves of fashion and then decided to abandon it all together for whatever reasons due to changes in their personal lives .... they stripped themselves of all kind of embellishments .... then went through a kind of depressions for whatever reasons and then 'rediscovered' ' fashion ' .... and by doing so they seem to have improved their own state of mind , gained their confidence and enjoyed feeling better about themselves ... but I assume that by then they realised that it is not about fashion controlling them but them controlling 'their ' fashion ...
If today's so called " GLAMOUR ICONS " are taken that serious ... I tend to believe that there is something fundamentally wrong with us .... and the biggest culprit in influencing us becoming less "free" to pursue a better direction than being slaved to fake glamour then that is the MEDIA .... look at what is in offer on TV !
Reality TV has been really damaging in many aspects .... why do they do it ? of course because they want us to become more "ENLIGHTENED" ... but then again who is the MEDIA ? ........ PARIS ?
Let's not forget that today's glamour icons are mostly the girl next door with hardly any talent worth mentioning ... that of course will create a false sense of illusion that anybody can be ' posh, rich, talented and glamorous ' as long as they are able to pose in front of the camera .... or simply because of being 'beautiful ' ..... their only commodity available as far as being 'talented' in many cases ! ... very shallow indeed ....